It seems grimly motivating, and also at times it could be: The reviews tend to be saturated in users congratulating one another for sticking with their criteria, thanking one another profusely for elucidating a typical relationship problem or вЂњmale depravityвЂќ and commiserating about their Pickmeisha pasts (вЂњStay strong, sister!вЂќ). Plus some of this core points of FDS look like healthy relationship advice for anybody, like than to be in a shitty relationship just for the sake of it, and that you may as well be upfront about your standards to avoid wasting everyoneвЂ™s time that itвЂ™s better to be single and work on yourself.
But FDS has a darker part, too.
Users are warned, as an example, against coffee dates, any intercourse without dedication, having boyfriends within their 20s and males whom arenвЂ™t in professions they enjoy. вЂњItвЂ™s constantly simpler to cut a person down too early than far too late,вЂќ a Ruthless Strategist warns. вЂњThereвЂ™s no thing that is such applying excessively care in terms of guys.вЂќ The mods additionally tolerate small debate about these strictures, and freely punish dissent by assigning the Pickmeishaв„ў flair to commenters whom disagree using them. Continue reading “The advice can sporadically be extremely restrictive, and also paranoid.”